THE BUS!!! I jumped up and ran outside to the bus stop when I realized I was late to pick up my boys. It was a nice day and I was picturing them alone waiting for me. In my rush I didn’t slip on my shoes. I slowed down when I saw that the bus hadn’t arrived. Then something unexpected happened. I became aware how wonderful my bare feet felt treading along the side-walk. I could feel ever pit mark and seam in the concrete. I felt the difference in temperature when I crossed from sun to shade. I arrived at the corner and let my toes wander into the grass. What ecstasy! I walked around relishing every texture. I couldn’t remember the last time I had been outside barefoot. I felt like I had as a child.
Being a birth nerd, I quickly realized my barefoot walk was similar to my unmedicated birth experience. My journey was comfortable and enjoyable. I felt the roughness of the cement, but it added to my experience. I noticed more about that walk than any previous ones. If I had worn shoes, I would have missed out on connecting with my environment. Wearing shoes simply does not feel the same as being barefoot. I feel the same about natural childbirth. Bringing a baby into this world is a miracle under any circumstances. Natural childbirth is the barefoot version of birthing. There is an added dimension that going natural brings to the experience. The difference between my medicated and natural births were marked and undeniable. I was more in tune with my body. I was at peace during the storm of contractions. I felt euphoric and energized after my 3 natural deliveries, which was a surprise after my first two medicated births.
The conditions were perfect for my barefoot adventure. If the temperature had been different, or if there had been broken class on the sidewalk, shoes would have been necessary. Similarly, it is not safe or prudent for every labor to be unmedicated. When the conditions are right we have a choice. Our society has become accustomed to a medicalized model of birth, just as we have become accustomed to wearing shoes. We forget that there are other choices. We absentmindedly slip on heels or tie on a pair of sneakers. In the majority of our healthcare experiences we trust in the safety and necessity of our medical ‘shoes’. Birth is not inherently medical in nature. We have been conditioned to believe that the monitors, drugs and interventions are just part of giving birth. Medical intervention is a luxury and a safety net for a natural process. If a mother chooses to have an epidural for comfort, great! If a mother needs to be induced due to a medical issue, we are grateful for the medical technology. Just as I chose to walk barefoot, natural birth is a choice. It doesn’t mean I think my birth is better than yours. It especially does not say anything about any one else’s choices. It doesn’t mean that I would want to have a surgery without medication, or try to heal my hypothyroid with herbs. Sometimes its just nice to experience life in a basic way. I experienced birth with all my senses and I loved it.
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